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Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-10 21:28:09)
My blog on polyamory - http://only-more-so.blogspot.com IMO casual sex = casual sex Why people have casual sex is up to them, and is no one else's place to judge. If I ever use the term slut, I mean it as a positive thing, and not a negative thing at all. My definition refers to people who are very sex positive and sexually liberated. These are only negative things in sex negative cultures (such as the US and much less so Australia). "Most girls would probably be reluctant to trade casual sex with very close friends, or for that matter, even stop subtle flirting (which is IMO, a form of cheating and dishonest to your partner) for a exclusive one on one relationship." A) substitute "guys" in that sentence and it is be equally true B) flirting is often unconscious and is part social conditioning and part social bonding - it is very difficult to avoid. IMO flirting is only considered cheating by your partner (not the person doing the flirting) and can be considered a form of insecurity in your partner. But really its between the two (or more) people to sort out what the boundaries of their relationship/s are. No relationships are ever identical after all, and what works for you, won't necessarily work for anyone else.
Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-10 20:29:25)
Excellent. My husband is somewhat of a slut (his own phrase) and my other husband is not. I would be considered a slut by some people, but really I'm not. I much prefer the sex and love thing combined together and I know women who aren't fussed either way. I really do take exception that with them being called sluts though just because they like casual sex.
Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-10 20:09:36)
Yes, I know all the names and details of all the women and men I've slept with. I'm just calling the general hypocrisy that men sleeping around (and I didn't say anything about cheating) is ok and women doing the same is not. Its the whole Madonna vs whore debate. If there is cheating involved, then its not cool. I never said it was.
Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-10 01:39:18)
Urm... just to weigh in on the whole "slut" debate. Women can sleep with whoever they choose whenever they choose provided they're not breaking any promises they've made to anyone else, just like men can. To say that a man who sleeps around is a stud and a woman in the same position a slut is pure hypocrisy. I have two male partners who I live with, I am the only person who can call me a slut. Everyone else can eat shit and die. Do all you men know the full name and other details of the women you've slept with?
Comment on nice gravestone (2009-01-03 21:24:42)
The grave is in a cemetery in Mount Macedon, Victoria, Australia. My ex's mother lives near there and when visiting once he took me for a tour of where he grew up and showed me this.
Comment on Seven of Nine in hallway (2008-10-31 06:00:02)
It amuses me that my husband is 7 of 9 children. I don't want to see him in that outfit.
Comment on Rainbow Spiral (2008-07-24 20:18:45)
I got sick of rainbows when travelling in New Zealand. Its not the land of the Long White Cloud, its the land of the never ending rainbows.
Comment on Fuck You - I Am Cat (2008-07-18 01:20:19)
words only have the power you give them. If "fuck" is just a word, like any other, than its not at all offensive. The moment it is taboo, then it becomes offensive (like genitals, sex and overall nudity - sadly). Illuminati, I think you are still tripping on acid. Don't feed the troll.
Comment on Doctor Horrible (2008-07-18 01:11:54)
This is SO made of the awesome
Comment on Summer time blues (2008-07-14 22:31:39)
I'm in Australia too, so its winter, I'm in the last week of my school holidays (I work near full time and study part time) and I have the flu. So no work, no school and no social life. And I feel like crap. :(
Comment on Green Lantern Is Sexist (2008-06-11 23:19:24)
Mmm 1950s
Comment on Friends With Benefits Summary Prospectus (2008-06-11 23:13:46)
I much prefer polyamory
Comment on Koala Bears (2008-06-06 06:22:50)
Dammit they're not bears. They're marsupials and not even remotely related to bears. They're closer relatives of kangaroos and the rest of the marsupials we have here (echidnas, platypus, etc)
Comment on Gay Flag (2008-06-04 05:25:39)
Mmm intolerance, my favourite colour. I'm a bisexual, polyamorous switch, married to a bisexual man and in another relationship with a straight man. I like my rainbow colours, why should I have to choose just one?
Comment on Borobudur at high noon (2008-06-02 05:22:28)
Oriented against the poles of the earth I understand. The solar system I don't... care to expand on that a little? What you're actually saying is that the temples are symmetrical and built in straight lines. The city I believe was square.