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Comment on Voltron Royal Crest Wallpaper (2009-04-21 21:50:10)
I saw this again as an adult and it sucked so hard.
Comment on Intel Prescott CPU heatsinks the size of small elephants (2009-04-10 23:45:27)
source not sauce... unless that link has the giant CPU fan covered in chocolate (or other flavour) sauce.
Comment on Red Panda Bears (2009-04-01 06:53:48)
They are not bears, they're more closely related to raccoons. You don't see us going around saying, "Ooh look, raccoon bears".
Comment on Richard Dawkins - Sexy Man (2009-03-31 04:15:24)
Intelligent, inflammatory and interesting... yes. Sexy no
Comment on Huntsman Spider (2009-03-15 01:19:18)
I'm phobic of european wasps (which this spider appears to be eating). I don't like spiders, but huntsmen spiders are fairly placid, and if they're going to eat wasps, then I'll start a collection - outside my home.
Comment on Coconut crab (2009-03-10 05:07:09)
They're protected on Christmas Island at least. They're hunted to endangerment on many other islands. Apparently they are a delicacy, but it does depend a lot on what they eat. If they've been eating good things like coconuts, then they're yummy, if they've been eating certain types of weeds, then they're not. They're cooked in many parts of asia and served up.
Comment on Coconut crab (2009-03-08 01:17:42)
Here my photo - http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluebec/340613817/in/set-72157594584006561/
Comment on Coconut crab (2009-03-08 01:10:36)
Hey That first photo is mine. Where on earth did you get it from?
Comment on Happiness is... SHIBARI! (2009-03-04 04:39:09)
I've been rope bound and have rope bound men. Shibari (at least in my dictionary) is erotic rope bondage of either gender. Cock bondage is lots of fun guys, I recommend you try it out some time.
Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-11 01:45:52)
dieAntagonista - Fact is, relationships guarantee harm to the feelings of other people period. Regardless of the type of relationship, relationships can hurt, love can hurt, people can hurt. Monogamy isn't any better than polyamory just because it's societally accepted. Can one be too open minded? Thank you nyokki for your comments.
Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-10 22:22:37)
Its funny when polyamorous relationships break down and people say, "See, I told you that polyamory doesn't work." Its never the reverse when a monogamous relationship breaks down... people never say, "See, I told you that monogamy doesn't work." I do not currently have children, I might one day (though the biological clock is busy ticking away). It take a village to raise a child after all, and I have one set up around me as it is. diAntagonista: you may believe that that kind of love is only possible between two people, and it would most certainly be true for you. But I'm not you, and I love each of my partners equally, passionately and forever. I'm a different type of person to you. I'm not judging you and your experiences of monogamy, calling you weak or closed-minded. If monogamy makes you happy, then that's fantastic. I'm not monogamous, so it doesn't work for me, and my current set up makes me blissfully happy.
Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-10 22:11:46)
*laugh* Oh if it were only true. Now lets find dictionary definitions where possible: promiscuous 1. having many sexual partners. 2. indiscriminate; without discrimination: promiscuous with one's praise. 3. consisting of parts, elements, or individuals of different kinds brought together without order: a promiscuous heap of cutlery. 4. unrestrained: promiscuous gossip. I don't know if 3 counts as many... but if it does then I succeed on that point and fail all the rest. And yes, you're right I haven't married my girlfriend yet, but our relationship is MUCH younger than the other two relationships, and I don't know anyone who jumps to marriage straight away in a relationship. Now polyamory: polyamory the mating pattern of having a number of sexual partners at the same time. Thanks to the Macquarie Dictionary. If you go to wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Promiscuity Discusses casual sex with many partners and sex with partners not your spouse. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory Discusses ethical non-monogamy. You judge and say I'm promiscuous... I don't care. You don't know me from a bar of soap (as they say). However, I don't consider myself promiscuous given that I actually am very discriminating when I come to my partners and am very faithful to them. In the end its all semantics. I'm not going to change your mind and you're not going to change mine.
Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-10 22:02:32)
Oh wow (in relation to stretching vaginas). What do you think that childbirth does to a woman? Women are built stretchy.
Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-10 22:01:35)
Love, sex and pleasure are combined. They can live without each other though. For example: I fell in love with my second husband 3 years before we had sex. I was falling in love with my girlfriend before we had sex and my husband and I loved each other before we had sex. So yes, I had the love before the sex. Dishonesty is a big problem, and I agree completely with your issues in relation to your ex lying to you. If any of my partners seriously lied to me I'd break up with them. Trust is very important, and if that is broken beyond repair, then the relationship (at least in my shoes) is likely to break beyond repair as well. Oh and I _hate_ game playing.
Comment on The Recently Deflowered Girl (2009-01-10 21:47:59)
@casemods: No, what I'm defending really is that I'm a) sex positive and b) polyamorous. And that the societal double standard with what men can get away with is unfair, when women are unequal in that equation. I have no fucking idea what you mean by "the vagina is a hole that can be stretched out". I love both my husbands and I love my girlfriend. Just because I love more than one person doesn't mean that I love any of them less. Love is not a starvation economy. These relationships are not for sex, they are actually for love. I wouldn't be with any of them if I didn't love them. So your ex is possibly polyamorous, good for her. I'm guessing you weren't happy with that, and that's ok too. And yes, flirting is social. If the person being flirted with ends up cheating on their partner, then that's their weakness/problem/issue/whatever and for them to sort out. If my partners wanted me to stop flirting with people (which I don't do over much anyway) then I'd tell them where to get off. Unless of course that was something we'd agreed to. However, any jealousy on my partner's behalf is actually their problem, and although I'd be supportive, it is not my role to change my behaviour to stop them being jealous. It is their role to address the issues that make them jealous inside themselves. Surely its complimentary to see that others are interested in your partner and that although they flirt back, they come back to you and sleep in your bed and love you... Oh and by the way, I don't necessarily take the term slut as a compliment if it isn't meant that way.