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Comment on I am an atheist - the burden of proof lies on religion (2010-06-08 18:33:56)
Atheists have just as much right to be vocal as the religious folks, however, I'm just not entirely sure why you all have to be so angry. And antagonizing too. To me, it's almost like yelling at a dog because it doesn't understand how a cats mind works. Insults and yelling is not going to make it any clearer...
Comment on I am an atheist - the burden of proof lies on religion (2010-06-08 18:26:27)
From what I've observed, it seems like most of the physiological weaknesses we see in most living things are simply necessary compromises in order to allow organisms to survive in conditions they are most likely to encounter. But you have voiced an interesting take on the construction of the human body. Can you elaborate more on why you believe the human body is so poorly constructed? And do you find this true of all life as well?
Comment on I am an atheist - the burden of proof lies on religion (2010-06-08 18:21:13)
Phail troll attempt is phail.
Comment on I am an atheist - the burden of proof lies on religion (2010-06-08 18:20:37)
Welcome to the club.
Comment on cloud eyes (2010-06-08 01:09:33)
ROFL. And that's when we were all forced to get to da choppa...
Comment on archaeological method vs indiana jones (2010-06-08 00:07:14)
Yes indeed. I think I'm gonna get a hat like that. And let's not forget the bullwhip. I need one of those too. :D
Comment on giraffee tongue (2010-06-07 23:49:23)
I'm guessing the thought makes you all tingly, doesn't it?
Comment on I am an atheist - the burden of proof lies on religion (2010-06-07 23:47:29)
This thread has become chock full of all kinds of brilliant win. I love it!
Comment on 80s love (2010-06-07 22:29:37)
OK that would be a total waste. Cheetara is right there, and she looks lonely.
Comment on dalak cosplayer (2010-06-07 22:23:44)
Well apparently, he's doing a good job...
Comment on anti-gay book (2010-06-07 22:21:51)
Well, I do not think you would be being a crybaby to say what is on your heart. People are who they are, life gives you what it gives you, and everyone handles it differently. Either way, I have asked quite probing questions, and you have been quite a lot more forthcoming than I would have been, and I appreciate that. I guess the only other thing I would add regarding your husband is that if a guy really loves you, their wanting to be intimate with you is not always all for selfish reasons. Many of them want to make you feel loved, as much as they feel you love them. So though having sex is a strong biological imperative in men, it is not always about simply satisfying their own selfish needs. For the good men, at least, it is often just as much about satisfying you, as it is them. I hope you realize that. Nyokki pointed out, in another post, that you do not have to have sex in order to be intimate. And I agree with her. I think all the hurtful things he does to you are because of his frustration. I think that if you really would have sex with him if you could, maybe you can show it in other ways. He may know that you love him, but perhaps if you can show him that he may not be as mean to you as he has been. But I realize that everyone is different, and just because I think there are better ways of doing something does not make it true for everyone. I've known couples that stayed together into old age that were just absolutely mean to each other on a daily basis. I don't think I'd ever want to be in that situation, but it works for some folks. Ultimately, the choice is all yours. You might find something you can do for him that wont rub you the wrong way either. It might actually help for you take the first step to help him deal with his pain, and in so doing, motivate him to stop trying to transfer it to you... Just my overinflated $.02 Thanks for your honesty.
Comment on anti-gay book (2010-06-07 21:21:27)
OK, I realize I'm asking really personal questions, so you can tell me to mind my own beeswax if I ask something that you do not wish to discuss. But it seems to me that you can actually enjoy sex if you really wanted to, but you've chosen not to do so with him, not because you don't want kids, but for some other reason. There are so many other options for birth control that would sill allow you to have a sex life. If it is possible for you to actually enjoy sex, and you know your hubby would absolutely love to have sex with you, why wouldn't you be looking for an alternative to your IUD? If you are absolutely certain you are going to tough it out with him, why not ask him to get snipped instead? Or does he also believe that you may want kids some day? And if not, why not try other birth control solutions? It just sounds to me like the two of you are punishing each other needlessly. He's punishing you for your perceived unwillingness to be intimate with him, and you are punishing him for his lashing out in frustration, though I'm not entirely sure you realize how difficult it is for a guy to be with someone they love, and not be able to be intimate with them. I guess what I'm really interested in knowing is whether you actually do want to ever be able to have sex with your husband, and if not, why?
Comment on 80s love (2010-06-07 20:55:22)
The Bearriors? LOL apparently they never really existed beyond the concept art, but they look pretty cool. Found Silver guy! - SilverHawks And I think the band in the back is Jem and the Holograms. I think we got everyone... :D And that's just so typical of Lando, making a move on She-Ra...
Comment on 80s love (2010-06-07 20:03:02)
Sloth, from the Goonies.
Comment on I am an atheist - the burden of proof lies on religion (2010-06-07 19:38:32)
I think they forgot to add that they are not Atheists because it makes them feel superior to those annoying, dumb trusting little theists who have no respect for the scientific process. Or maybe they didn't. Is that a good thing or a bad thing?