Okay, I’ll accept that pal… but you do understand that long after that birth and the costs involved in the pregnancy – the man is responsible for the cost and raising of that child until the age of 18. The U.S. federal government estimates that the average cost of raising a child born in 2016 to age 18 is $372,340.
In the U.S. 54% percent of first marriages, 67% of second and 74% of third marriages end in divorce and with each one usually comes children or step-children – the “non-host” (the man) are fully responsible overseeing as a full partner of that child’s rearing and a full financial responsibility until age 18.
Within the last five years in the U.S. jail and prison sentencing enforcement in child support delinquent fathers has taken a huge upturn.

I believe it’s time that men begin taking some solid responsibility in the rearing and raising of so many “unwanted and/or unplanned” children – instead of simply laying this shit on the “hosts” doorstep.

Millions upon millions of children in our country are being raised by single mothers – mothers that chose not to have abortions, children living in pure poverty, hungry, uneducated and raised in crime-ridden low-income housing… where and when are these “non-host men” (who love kids and would sacrifice for them) going to step in and turn that around?

I was raised in such an environment… so this subject is quite close to my heart. I made it out by the skin of my teeth, pure personal perseverance, and sheer self-sacrifice and in all that time, I never, never, NEVER saw one single man (that loves kids and against abortion) come by and say I’m here to sacrifice for you (and certainly no church member hypocritical Christians either).