what? . . . someone says “I like your long hair” or “your hair looks really nice today” and her reaction is to immediately go out and butcher her hair. that is called a HUGE RED FLAG. she has problems she needs addressed by medical personnel the guy should just run and be grateful he avoided ruining a chunk of his life. all rejection makes us feel bad , but dodging a bullet is still dodging a bullet. on a completely unrelated note , I wonder where that rumor about women being in crisis when they suddenly chop all their hair off came from?
Well. An original post I had before I went, “nah, maybe they both a little nuts” dealt with us not having all the information here. Dude could be creepy, dude could just be awkward but it came across creepy to her, maybe she hates all men, maybe this post didn’t really happen. I think a lot of us bring our own baggage to this one since we clearly don’t have the full story. Get me 4k vidoe with 5.1 surround sound and multiple camera angles of the event and then maybe we can be a bit more impartial.
If some creepy dude comes up to her and says “I loooooove your looooooooooooong hair” (inflection intentional) I could see where she might nope the fuck out of having to deal with that again.
Or, if some dude said “I like your hair” and she was internally thinking “fuck all men” then yeah, I still see why she did what she did, but maybe her reasoning is a little off.
Maybe shy guy should just think about a nice friendly “hello” and a smile next time. And if she doesn’t respond, that’s okay. You don’t owe each other a damn thing.
I feel like maybe both parties are perhaps a little unhinged for this to have happened.
what? . . . someone says “I like your long hair” or “your hair looks really nice today” and her reaction is to immediately go out and butcher her hair. that is called a HUGE RED FLAG. she has problems she needs addressed by medical personnel the guy should just run and be grateful he avoided ruining a chunk of his life. all rejection makes us feel bad , but dodging a bullet is still dodging a bullet. on a completely unrelated note , I wonder where that rumor about women being in crisis when they suddenly chop all their hair off came from?
Well. An original post I had before I went, “nah, maybe they both a little nuts” dealt with us not having all the information here. Dude could be creepy, dude could just be awkward but it came across creepy to her, maybe she hates all men, maybe this post didn’t really happen. I think a lot of us bring our own baggage to this one since we clearly don’t have the full story. Get me 4k vidoe with 5.1 surround sound and multiple camera angles of the event and then maybe we can be a bit more impartial.
If some creepy dude comes up to her and says “I loooooove your looooooooooooong hair” (inflection intentional) I could see where she might nope the fuck out of having to deal with that again.
Or, if some dude said “I like your hair” and she was internally thinking “fuck all men” then yeah, I still see why she did what she did, but maybe her reasoning is a little off.
Maybe shy guy should just think about a nice friendly “hello” and a smile next time. And if she doesn’t respond, that’s okay. You don’t owe each other a damn thing.
difference between a creep and being flirty is whether someone is considered attractive.