from her own statements, she went to a party, got black out drunk, went home with a guy and fell down while walking home with him. those choices led her to be on the ground making out with him where he decided it was a good idea to start fingering her, right there in public, which was a shitty choice on his part.
now she’s profiting off the decisions that were made that night, which is weird af to me.
Turn it around and ask if she’d known what would happen would she have done any of it, Tiki. Nope, she wouldn’t. If women navigated the world and treated men as though every man is like Brock Turner, what kind of world would it be? They say drinking brings out our unfiltered selves. Hers was trusting, wanting company, foolish, and naive. His? Entitled, predatory, objectifying of women. He left her passed out and exposed on the street, I mean, really? So yeah, I see her as being brave and raising awareness that the culture needs to shift a lot*. We all have a part to play in it. Too big a scope to go into how to avoid being sexually assaulted, and what’s reasonable behaviour knowing that it’s incredibly common, happens despite the best precautions, sometimes stone cold sober, shouldn’t happen ever, that sometimes people do dumb risky shit with alcohol and drugs, and that it is not exclusive to females as victims.
*including the way the case was handled by the judge etc originally, oh man …
who left who? in the brock turner / Chnael Miller thing, they were making out behind the dumpster when the exchange students found them, no one was alone, for better or worse.
Reading her statement again, he ran when people came across what was happening and took issue with it. He left her unconscious [in her statement that’s the word she uses and witnesses / medical evidence surely corroborated that] and exposed. I call that leaving her, but yeah, he didn’t do what he did and saunter off. Quite right. I suppose he wasn’t quite done when interrupted. I don’t want to attack you here Tiki, especially as Gropegrope (have to have a dark laugh at your username in this particular context) and you are already a bit heated. Let’s us agree to disagree on how we read what happened, eh? I’d add a smiley face smile but it might seem a bit terse, tight, and smarmy. Touchy topic, oh man, words huh?
She was unconscious. That’s rape. Period.
As for “profitting”…who the fuck cares…?
I’m sure there are literally millions of sexual assault survivors who want to know they aren’t the only one suffering.
who’s saying she was unconscious? also, he was never charged with rape, I’m not sure where that meme came from, but it was sexual assault, not rape. Saying the wrong thing just sends the wrong message.
Felony sexual assault then…?
Depends on the jurisdiction what the legal definition is…in California they parse the difference between rape and sexual assault.
Seems like splitting hairs to me, most people I know would call it rape.
And the guys that interviened found her unconscious while Brock was….sexually assaulting her.
I get how you’d think it’s profiting. Shame is huge for people who’ve been sexually assaulted. Maybe see it as she’s overcoming shame rather than whoring her story out. If she’s making money from it, that’s fair, for her time, no? Gotta respect that.
youtu.be/ZakGtYooyPY youtu.be/Pqsg40wcCeU
You know how the right-wingers believe crazy shit? What you don’t realize is that the same type of retarded stories and positions get sucked up by the Left as well. Examine evidence and form a unique opinion instead of absorbing the opinion of an uninformed talking head.
the more I learn about her situation, the less sympathy I have for her.
What do you mean…?
from her own statements, she went to a party, got black out drunk, went home with a guy and fell down while walking home with him. those choices led her to be on the ground making out with him where he decided it was a good idea to start fingering her, right there in public, which was a shitty choice on his part.
now she’s profiting off the decisions that were made that night, which is weird af to me.
Sorry buddy, that’s bullshit. Your starting to sound like all the right wing trolls excusing Kavanaugh now….
Turn it around and ask if she’d known what would happen would she have done any of it, Tiki. Nope, she wouldn’t. If women navigated the world and treated men as though every man is like Brock Turner, what kind of world would it be? They say drinking brings out our unfiltered selves. Hers was trusting, wanting company, foolish, and naive. His? Entitled, predatory, objectifying of women. He left her passed out and exposed on the street, I mean, really? So yeah, I see her as being brave and raising awareness that the culture needs to shift a lot*. We all have a part to play in it. Too big a scope to go into how to avoid being sexually assaulted, and what’s reasonable behaviour knowing that it’s incredibly common, happens despite the best precautions, sometimes stone cold sober, shouldn’t happen ever, that sometimes people do dumb risky shit with alcohol and drugs, and that it is not exclusive to females as victims.
*including the way the case was handled by the judge etc originally, oh man …
who left who? in the brock turner / Chnael Miller thing, they were making out behind the dumpster when the exchange students found them, no one was alone, for better or worse.
Reading her statement again, he ran when people came across what was happening and took issue with it. He left her unconscious [in her statement that’s the word she uses and witnesses / medical evidence surely corroborated that] and exposed. I call that leaving her, but yeah, he didn’t do what he did and saunter off. Quite right. I suppose he wasn’t quite done when interrupted. I don’t want to attack you here Tiki, especially as Gropegrope (have to have a dark laugh at your username in this particular context) and you are already a bit heated. Let’s us agree to disagree on how we read what happened, eh? I’d add a smiley face smile but it might seem a bit terse, tight, and smarmy. Touchy topic, oh man, words huh?
which part is bullshit to you?
She was unconscious. That’s rape. Period.
As for “profitting”…who the fuck cares…?
I’m sure there are literally millions of sexual assault survivors who want to know they aren’t the only one suffering.
who’s saying she was unconscious? also, he was never charged with rape, I’m not sure where that meme came from, but it was sexual assault, not rape. Saying the wrong thing just sends the wrong message.
Felony sexual assault then…?
Depends on the jurisdiction what the legal definition is…in California they parse the difference between rape and sexual assault.
Seems like splitting hairs to me, most people I know would call it rape.
And the guys that interviened found her unconscious while Brock was….sexually assaulting her.
He was nearly unconscious at the time too, which again, isn’t anything to excuse his behavior.
And splitting hairs is in my professional job description, so it’s an automatic response.
I get how you’d think it’s profiting. Shame is huge for people who’ve been sexually assaulted. Maybe see it as she’s overcoming shame rather than whoring her story out. If she’s making money from it, that’s fair, for her time, no? Gotta respect that.
youtu.be/ZakGtYooyPY
youtu.be/Pqsg40wcCeU
You know how the right-wingers believe crazy shit? What you don’t realize is that the same type of retarded stories and positions get sucked up by the Left as well. Examine evidence and form a unique opinion instead of absorbing the opinion of an uninformed talking head.