From what I hear, Hef was kind of a shit guy, especially in his later years. Bunnies who lived in the mansion weren’t allowed to have boyfriends besides him (and he had like 20 Bunnies at a time). He used their “allowance” as a way to manipulate them. He let his Primary Girlfriend get away with everything, including letting her dog shit all over the carpet… to the point where the other Bunnies were largely expected to stand in it. If he was having sex with a Bunny, other Bunnies were required to be cheerleaders.