OP reminds me of an editorial I once read seriously condemning polyamorous relationships on the grounds that they meant that a small pool of men would be “using up” all the women, depriving other men of them. Besides the ludicrous logic and the writer’s obvious inferiority complex, I had to laugh at it because 90% of the poly groups I know of personally are either equal numbers of both sexes, or two guys and one woman. Hint, OP and editorial writer: if you don’t have a girlfriend, it ain’t because the big boys or the nasty lesbians are stealing them from you.