Extremely very wrong.

Girls are attracted to assholes because they’re (fake) alpha males. Assholes act like they own the world, like rules don’t apply to them and everyone should do everything they say. They act like they have POWER (even if they actually have little of it). In contrast, nice guys care about other people’s feelings, ie, they can’t act without asking others what to do or asking them for permission before doing it, which makes them look like the exact opposite of an alpha male.

Furthermore, assholes are doers, while nice guys are mostly thinkers, which means when the time comes to do some fun activities, the asshole will be full of (mostly idiotic) ideas of fun things to do while the nice guy will just sit back and ask the girl what she wants to do.

And here’s a tip for “nice” guys: women don’t like it when men ask them what to do. It doesn’t mean that you care about her opinion, it just means you have no thoughts of your own, no good ideas, you don’t know her at all, and she’s gonna have to do ALL the heavy lifting in the relationship. (Not to mention you’ll be completely useless in an emergency.)

What you need to do is to give her options. Well thought-out, intelligent options that show her that you know what you’re doing and you’re not just dead weight waiting for her to do everything. And make a recommendation that shows her that you know exactly what she wants and what she likes without her having to tell you anything. Then let her choose.

For the record, I’m not a girl, just a sociopath who makes a living by manipulating (gullible) people.